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Pushing Through the Roadblocks to get Fit and Strong

I want to be pushing through the roadblocks. I want to be fit and strong, For some reason I think that taking on big challenges, or challenges in general right now, is a good idea.

I fully blame the corona isolation quarantine thing for my exercise stall.

My mental game is different than how it has been the past 12 years of working toward the elusive goal, and now I’m hitting roadblocks. pushing through the roadblocksSeeing this little violet bloom in between the cracks of the concrete driveway inspired me today.

I’m going to revisit the cue/habit thing. I’ll say my mantras. Work my “to-do” list plan my day/week/month. Maybe I can get things clicking like they used to.

The book The Power of Habit really links the cue with the routine and reward. I know that to establish or re-establish a good habit, I really need to focus on the cue and reward to link the routine in the middle.

Having found a routine that I will doing consistently will help my mental state, (and of course, my physical one too.) There are many choices. Treadmill. Walks. Body weight exercises. Dumb bells. Yoga. Online videos. Live gym classes. Bike. Hike.

More importantly than what I do will be to use the cue, routine, reward cycle to help me break through those roadblocks.

Instead of focusing on this is the first Cleveland Marathon not to be held in something like 40 years, I’m going to focus on something within my control, like the 10K steps or the 10 floors of stairs a day.

Do you link cue/routine/reward to build strong good habits? Tell me about it on voice mail 330-970-6662 or leave a comment below.

What’s the New Normal? Coming to Terms with Staying at Home

I’ve been mulling over this question: what’s the new normal? Everything I read or listen to seems to be related to staying at home, avoiding contact with others, quarantining ourselves, and trying to not get sick. It’s difficult to think about other things. However, we just learned that killer wasps have entered the country and the coming hurricane season is predicted to be a rough one. Wow, it’s hard to know what to think or do these days. It’s overwhelming.

Marketing

Have you noticed that commercials have all gone to this sentimental but serious tone as they try to sell you a new car or new windows for your house? It would almost be funny if it weren’t so sad. We’re here for you and we’ll help you buy replacement windows.

On the other hand, I saw that Kia has donated $1 million to help homeless youth. Since that demographic is not in the market to buy a new car, I applaud them for their generosity. That speaks more to me about their intentions of being there for us than a commercial telling me I can buy a new car from people who care.

Returning to Nature

Today I went for a run. It was a beautiful spring day with blue skies and warm temperature. Hoping to enjoy the gorgeous weather, I went to part of the local bike and hike trail that I expected to be less crowded. That ended up being accurate though there were a lot of bicyclists out. It was good to be able to be outside and not have to think about the news. Of course, there were those moments of passing people or having bikes pass me. Some people wore masks and others did not. What I realized is that even being outside and trying to just enjoy nature, it was impossible to forget what we’re dealing with.

What’s the New Normal?

I’m not sure that I have a real point here. It seems that businesses are trying to figure out how to market to us during a pandemic without seeming to be too crass and we’re all trying to figure out how to live our lives without too much difficulty. I’m not sure if this will ever become the “new normal” so that we don’t even think about passing people who either are or aren’t wearing masks.

What I do know is that we need some things to occupy our minds besides viruses, wasps, hurricanes, and crime. Any suggestions? I’m open for new ideas. It would be even better if the new thing was not  increasing our worries.

Intermittent Fasting with Gin Stephens

Intermittent Fasting Lifestyle with Gin Stephens – Episode #58

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In episode 58 of the Fit Strong Women Over 50 podcast, Jill and Chris interview Gin Stephens about her experiences with a intermittent fasting lifestyle. Gin Stephens is the author of Delay, Don’t Deny: Living an Intermittent Fasting Lifestyle.

Gin has been living the intermittent fasting lifestyle since 2014. This lifestyle shift allowed her to lose over 80 pounds. She has launched her intermittent fasting website, four Facebook support groups, four self-published books, and two top-ranked podcasts—Intermittent Fasting Stories and The Intermittent Fasting Podcast.

Her newest book, Fast, Feast, Repeat will be available in June 2020.

Gin graduated from the Institute of Integrative Nutrition’s Health Coach Training Program in 2019. She earned a Doctor of Education degree in Gifted and Talented Education (2009), a Master’s degree in Natural Sciences (1997), and a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education (1990).

In today’s podcast we discussed:

  • How does intermittent fasting work with weight loss?
  • Intermittent fasting and maintaining a weight loss
  • Recommendations for starting intermittent fasting
  • What to eat while you’re practicing intermittent fasting
  • How certain flavored beverages can interrupt a clean fast
  • Strength training, running and cycling with intermittent fasting

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Click here for more on our Becoming Elli website about Intermittent Fasting and Dawn Maloney’s experiences with intermittent fasting.

Home Roasting Coffee Beans

I’m home roasting coffee beans these days. My son decided that I should get back to coffee roasting and bought me a new roaster for Christmas.

Since I’ve been home for several weeks and have more time, I’ve been roasting frequently. One of the things we discussed in our podcast episode 57, Improve Your Healthy Immune System with Dr. Victoria Shaw, was doing things by hand.  Nobody brought up roasting coffee beans but I think it works.

How does it work to roast your own coffee beans? It’s not difficult and there are a variety of ways to do it. I have a Fresh Air SR540 roaster which is a small hot air roaster. Some people use popcorn poppers to roast their beans, which is one of the cheapest ways to roast coffee. Others buy larger drum roasters that cost considerably more than what I’m using.

I buy green coffee beans on the Internet. The advantage of buying green coffee beans is that you can buy a variety of beans from different parts of the world and try them. I usually do a bit of research on the beans that I’ve bought so I can see what kind of roast works best for them. Just like buying coffee at the store, you can roast your beans in a light, medium, or dark roast.

Green coffee beans still have moisture in them. Roasting dries the beans and then they “crack.” The cracking sounds a  lot like popcorn popping. Coffee beans will crack twice if you roast it long enough. I might go through the second crack if I’m going for a dark roast.

home roasting coffee beans

Here’s how I roast the coffee beans. I measure out the green coffee beans into the roaster.

home roasting coffee beans

I adjust the settings on the roaster and then roast the beans. Once the beans have made it through the first crack, I then judge by appearance and sound how much longer to roast. As the beans roast, they change color.

home roasting coffee beans

First they become a yellowish color and then begin to turn brown. If they’re roasted to a dark roast, they develop an oily sheen to them.

Each session takes somewhere between 10 and 15 minutes. Once the beans have roasted to the level I want, I pour the beans into a metal colander and let them cool.

home roasting coffee beans

Finally, I pour them into a glass container and let them sit for at least 24 hours. When I’m ready to make coffee with them, I grind them in my coffee grinder and use them in the same way I use beans I bought from the store.

It’s fun trying different beans from different parts of the world and then roasting them to different degrees of darkness to determine which I prefer. If you have a chance, give home roasting coffee beans a try. Let me know how it goes for you.

 

Hiking through the Woods Mindfully

Hiking through the woods is an enjoyable way to spend a spring afternoon. Yesterday was one of those special spring hikes.

I tried to stay in the moment and had a good time checking out all the signs of spring. It felt almost like a scavenger hunt: Moss, check. Mud, check. Ferns, mushrooms, ravine. Check, check, check.

Hiking in the woods definitely reminds me of when I was a kid because when I was young, this was a constant activity in the spring. hiking through the woods on a sunny afternoon

I didn’t get a photo of the deer that I saw. In fact, I didn’t even think of it, just enjoyed the moment. It felt really good to be out in the sun crunching over hills and along the trail. Social distancing is easy when you’re in the woods. It doesn’t as feel weird as trying to stay 6 feet apart while talking in someone’s driveway or in a parking lot at the grocery store.

Doing something you love really doesn’t feel like exercise. Yesterday, without even realizing it, I hit all my FitBit goals of the day. More importantly, after focusing on the woods and hiking along the trail, my mind got back into its normal, happy place. Besides the fresh air and sunshine, I think it was the mindfulness. Staying in the moment really helps to flush out the feelings of isolation that have been haunting me lately.

Gotta love the joys of nature!

How about you? What have you been doing to find enjoyable ways of getting exercise? Leave a message below, send an email to chris@becomingelli.com or a voice mail at 330-970-6662.

Improve Your Healthy Immune System with Dr. Victoria Shaw

Improve Your Healthy Immune System – Episode 57

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In Episode #57, Jill and Chris talk with Dr. Victoria Shaw about self care to help you improve your healthy immune system. This episode is particularly helpful and timely since we are in the middle of the the COVID-19 pandemic.

She has an extensive educational background:

Dr. Shaw received her Doctorate of Nursing Practice from Case Western Reserve University, her Master of Science in Nursing from University of Wisconsin-Madison, and her Bachelor of Arts from Pennsylvania State University. She also has additional credentials and certifications from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, Cornell University, Princeton Biofeedback Center, and the Center for Mind Body Medicine… among others. As a nurse practitioner, health and wellness coach and a facilitator of compassionate change, Dr. Shaw combines cutting edge, evidence-based science with time honored wisdom to help her clients feel better, sleep better and relieve bothersome symptoms…

During this episode we discuss:

  • What is the immune system?
  • The effects of stress on a healthy immune system
  • How can we improve the health of our immune system?
  • How can we improve our sleep?
  • Insights into food sensitives and food allergies.
  • The differences between mindfulness and meditation
  • How they improve the immune system
  • How to get some mindfulness into your day if you don’t have a mindfulness practice
  • We talk about how to eat right, avoid stress, and ways of getting good sleep:

Dr. Victoria Shaw has prepared this 4 page PDF handout to download: Self Care to Improve Your Immune System.

You can find her online at her Facebook Coaching and Consulting page.

Some of the links mentioned during this episode for practicing mind body exercises: HeartMath an app that usually costs for $30 for access, is currently available for free due to COVID-19. It helps to better manage stressful emotions and Increase resilience. You can learn more about the science behind HeartMath here.

Her mentor is Richard Miller who has several iRest videos available here:
20 minutes  27 minutes 35 minutes  1 hour 46 minutes

Improving my Schedule During the Stay At Home

I know I’m not the only one. I need to work on improving my schedule. Something about this stay-at-home pandemic life is paralyzing to my motivation and ambition. Has it happened to you too?

It has been about a month and a half since I’ve been staying at home and not “seeing” people. I’d like to say that I’m finally starting to accept the new normal.

Do I like it? No. And some days are easier than others. I’m looking for new ways to adjust and flourish.

  • To do lists include the simple things now. (clean the kitchen, do the laundry, take a walk)
  • Getting a strong hold over my thoughts, which has always been challenging, is my focus.
  • I can’t believe it has been only 6 weeks since I wrote this blog post. Look at how upbeat it is! I especially scoff at learning a new skill.
  • Wait! That’s negative! I promised myself I’d write something uplifting and positive!

Mental Strength

Honestly, this has been harder for me mentally than I expected. (Cue the pity party.) I actually need to count my blessings and quit feeling sorry for myself.

When I’m not doing the best mentally, the physical part of being fit and strong starts to suffer. I don’t eat right. I tend to gain weight. I’m not drinking enough water. I’m not doing my regular workouts. I go to my gym (virtually) but quit the workout during the warm up. Wow! What’s up with that?

The odd thing is, while things feel out of my control, but there are still so things that ARE TOTALLY IN MY CONTROL.

Logically I know that there is no reason I shouldn’t be doing what I need to do to stay healthy, fit and strong. There are so many ways to look at improving my schedule:

  • Why am I not drinking my water?
  • Why am I not having the salad – that I happen to love – for my lunch everyday? It’s the one with lots of cut up veggies, a can of tuna and my favorite dressing of EEOV, cider vinegar and lemon juice?
  • Why do I not take advantage of the video workouts?
  • Why am I not getting my 10,000 steps, before noon each day?

I can easily watch, learn more and grow my yoga practice…just stop asking why and just do it. I KNOW when I get more physical exercise it helps my mental game.

And I have 11 stair steps in my house. Easy enough to do them (and get the laundry done and even clean out some clutter in the basement.)

It’s all mental for me. I am healthy. No cold or flu or anything to stop me from exercising and taking care of myself.
Alright…, it’s time to get off my pity party and take control of my fitness and healthy eating! Improving my schedule is the first step. This week I am going to do things better.

My Get IT Together Plan:

  1. First thing in the morning – get some exercise. Stop pretending I’m going to get to it in the afternoon.
  2. Track my food. Write it down. Even if I don’t eat “perfectly healthy” (ha ha) I’m going to keep track of what I eat.
  3. Before I go to bed, review the day and give myself a pep talk for the next day.

On thing I’m really looking forward to is the Becoming Elli private zoom call. This will be our 3rd one. Each time, after the video call, I definitely had more energy and a brightened outlook. If you’d like to join us, you’ll need to be a member of our private Facebook group. We require that you answer 3 questions and Jill & I check out your profile keep the group legit.

What are you doing to improve resiliency during the COVID-19 stay at home situation? I’d love to hear your strategies and I’ll keep sharing mine.

 

 

Taking Care of Ourselves

There’s been so much talk about taking care of ourselves during the COVID-19 pandemic. I don’t know about you but I’m feeling emotionally drained. It’s hard to get motivated to do the things I normally do to stay fit and strong. Strength training has been erratic. Cardio has been not as vigorous as usual. TV watching is up; exercising is down. Eating is up; vegetable consumption is down. This is a challenge, that’s for sure.

I am struggling with my emotions, fluctuating from feeling fine to feeling grief and sadness and then moving on to anxiety. Such a great time, really.

Are you fighting the same battles? I think many of us are struggling with taking care of ourselves.

I’ve been trying to think of what I can do to increase my motivation and improve my emotional well-being. Here’s some ideas.

Podcasts

I’m trying to keep myself in a positive frame of mind so I’m trying to listen to upbeat, inspiring podcasts or just entertaining ones. I’m avoiding those that are scary or gloomy.

Here’s an idea: pick out a few old episodes of Fit Strong Women over 50 and listen to them.

I’m hoping to one day be able to resume traveling so I may listen to Janet Palcko discuss her adventure on the Camino de Santiago. There’s also the talk with Denise Wakeman about adventure travels. I think setting a travel goal for the future might be an incentive to stay active.

If you’re struggling with eating, check out some of the episodes we’ve had about healthy eating. If you’re feeling unmotivated, look at some of the episodes about motivation.

Blog

Don’t forget that there’s also the blogposts on the Becoming Elli website. Do some reading to help inspire you.

There are many posts so use the search feature to figure out what you want to read.

You can find lots of posts about food, exercise, and motivation.

Meal Planning

This might be a good time to plan your meals in advance. If you know what you’re going to eat, you might be tempted to restrain yourself from junk food.

Check out some of the recipes in our Fitness Food recipe e-book if you’re stumped for ideas.

Since most of us are avoiding grocery stores, doing as much planning ahead as we can is probably a good idea anyway.

I find myself wondering what I can do with what I have on hand. I recently found My Fridge Food, an interesting website where you select the ingredients you have on hand and it gives you recipe ideas.

Daily Goals

If thinking about traveling or what you’re going to do some time in the future isn’t working for you, try to set daily goals.

I have committed to hitting my 10,000 steps per day. I wear my Fitbit and try to keep track of what I’m walking.

I’ve also tried to do something fitness related every day. Sometimes that is just going for a walk (see how that ties in with the first goal?) Other days, I do some cardio such as going for a run or riding my indoor bike. I’ve also tried to do some online exercise classes. They’re better than nothing but they do make me miss my gym.

Staying in Touch

I am not a person who talks a lot on the phone but lately I find myself calling people just to check in. Emailing people is also good. Even a quick text is a good idea.

We need to keep our social networks alive even as we isolate ourselves.

A friend of mine started an online book club so we’re going to meet via Zoom to discuss the book. That should be fun.

The Becoming Elli community has had a couple Zoom get togethers. It’s been enjoyable to hear what others are doing and to put faces to names.

Conclusion

Let me know what you’re doing to stay fit and strong. I think that means in ways beyond the physical too. Are you exercising? If so, what are you doing? Are you figuring out healthy ways to eat? We need to support each other as we work on taking care of ourselves.

Walking More and Increasing Veggies during the Quarantine

I’ve been working on increasing my daily steps and so I’ve been walking a bit more.

Here are a couple of photos from yesterday’s walk.

The weather here is still mid 40’s so walking with a face mask is not a problem. I wear a bandana type face mask and then my neck gaiter from skiing over top of that.

I’ve also been trying to eat more vegetables. Being in quarantine with the days seeming to be the same over and over has caused me to not eat as well as I should. I enjoy eating what my husband cooks, but he definitely cooks for taste and not for calories… if you know what I mean!

Here are a couple of photos of some good veggies that I had over the weekend.

Roasting veggies on parchment paper with some olive oil tastes absolutely delicious.

My favorite salad recipe is this one:

Chop and mix: Fresh veggies from the fridge. A a little bit of each type with variety of colors is most fun.

  • Cherry tomatoes
  • Sweet peppers
  • Celery
  • Onions
  • Cucumbers
  • Broccoli
  • Cauliflower
  • Mushrooms
  • Onion
  • Use what you have!

Protein: Black beans or Cooked lentils or chick peas or even a drained can of tuna.

Salad dressing:

  • Olive oil
  • Cider vinegar
  • Lemon juice
  • Salt
  • Pepper

Mix together and enjoy!!  What do you find keeps you eating healthy during this unprecedented time? Do you make the same thing over and over or are you mixing it up and trying new recipes?

Can’t Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds

I bought Can’t Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds by David Goggins from Audible because I’d heard multiple people, mainly at my gym, say that it was a great book. They said it was very motivational and was about a man who became a Navy Seal. One woman said she didn’t care for the “bad” language in the book. I needed to use a credit on Audible and decided to buy this book.

Can't Hurt Me:

That’s basically what I knew about the book and had no idea who David Goggins is. Therefore, I was startled when he mentioned running ultramarathons. I turned to Google and discovered that David Goggins has an extensive military career but also an extensive endurance race career. Also, apparently he has been on numerous podcasts but I’ve missed hearing him.

Can’t Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds

The audio version contains content not available in the book. The book is read by the co-author, Adam Skolnick with breaks in the narrative where Goggins and Skolnick discuss what was read. They tell additional stories to supplement what is in the book. This at times is interesting though I began to find it a bit irritating and would become impatient to return to the actual book. Their conversation was repetitive. Adam Skolnick would take a break and say something like, “wow, that is amazing” and then David Goggins would repeat about how hard he had to work. He did tell some additional stories that were interesting but it could have been edited a bit.

Each chapter ends with a challenge for the listener. The point is that we can repeat much of what Goggins does to overcome our own fears and lack of discipline. Perhaps people do these challenges. I didn’t feel the need to bother with this. I suspect that says more about me than it does about the book.

Motivational Story

Definitely, David Goggins knows how to accomplish great goals. He is driven to perform and defies the odds to accomplish those goals. His motivation and drive is amazing.

I’m sure that many people find his story to be motivational. He overcame a difficult childhood that includes physical violence and poverty to succeed in life. There’s no doubt that he accomplished a tremendous amount in his search to be physically the best.

What Concerned Me

I found myself wondering about him however. Can’t Hurt Me: is about how to accomplish big goals and I think he does a great job of telling us how to do that but I’m not sure how successful he is as a person. He does say that we are not meant to be happy, that we need to focus on accomplishing what we want to accomplish.

Several times he decided to do something with a lack of preparation and then had to deal with injury and feelings of failure. I’m not sure that deciding to run a marathon when injured is a good decision. He also ran his first 100 mile race with no training and ends up with significant injury. Goggins thinks that shows what a “stud” he is. I suspect that I’m old enough that I think that’s just foolish. There’s no reason not to prepare for things. He’s very  impetuous.

Personal Life

Throughout the book, there’s the occasional mention of his ex-wives and a fiancée. Can’t Hurt Me: is certainly not about his personal life but he’s apparently been divorced at least three times. So, it’s not for me to criticize that but I felt that much of what he did was a way to avoid facing his feelings. He also talked about how he didn’t want to socialize with his platoon and other military people. While he succeeded in much of his goals, he seems to be emotionally stilted. I felt like much of what was driving him was the refusal to actually face the emotional trauma he suffered.

I found myself wondering about his brother. David Goggin’s brother was with him as a child but left their mother and David at some point to go live with their father. At that point, he drops out of the story until the last chapter. It’s mentioned that his brother ended up earning a PhD. Earning a PhD is definitely due to tenacity and commitment. I thought it was interesting that both of them ended up being successful, it would appear, despite the different paths they took in ways that required dedication and perseverance.

The Language

Oh yes, and the language. It is extreme. David Goggins says in the audio book that people who don’t like it should get over it because that’s how he talks. And that’s fine though most of us manage to speak one way and write another. So, it didn’t really bother me, but it felt gratuitous. It seemed to be more to be shocking than anything. The language could have been scaled back without affecting the intent of the book.

My Take Aways

I enjoyed the book but did not love it. The lessons that meant the most to me were how to come back after failing to reach a goal and the importance of stretching.

It’s easy when we fail in a project to give up. Goggins talks about how it took him three tries to earn the pull-up world record and what he learned from each failed attempt. That was motivational to me.

He also describes how his body rebelled from being so muscular without having any flexibility and that stretching became an important part of his routine. I think most of us fail to practice enough stretching and this was a great reminder.

I recommend this book unless you know you’re bothered by curse words. It may well motivate you to do more to meet your goals.

Don’t forget to check out some of my other book reviews.

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