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Three Ways to Get Motivation in Winter

The first weekend in February in Ohio is about halfway through the winter. This is the time of year have to I look for ways to find more motivation to stay with my intentions of being fit, strong and healthy throughout the winter.

I guess I blame the weather.

Winter in Northeast Ohio usually means grey, overcast skies that blend into white and grey half melted snow. Most of the winter, my instincts are to get cozy on the couch with a good book/movie, a warm blanket and eat something with high calories, lots of rich food. When I fight that “instinct” and get out in the fresh air, get some exercise and engage some endorphins, I always feel tons better.

If there are warm air and sunny, blue skies, I just feel like getting up and moving. Motivation is not a problem, but I know I can’t wait for blue skies to take care of myself! For most of the winter, I look for ways to psych myself out and get myself motivated.

Here are three ways I am motivating myself this winter to exercise and eat healthy:

1) Exercise Buddy – If I try to go it alone, it’s easy to skip a workout. Finding a partner to work out with gives me accountability. Even if my friend isn’t working out with me, we send emails and texts back and forth for work out motivation. Having a friend in person, either at the gym or going for a walk really helps. Setting an appointment with a personal trainer definitely helps. My gym has a buddy program that started a couple of weeks ago and I am getting to know someone new at my gym while making a point to show up. The last few weeks have really upped my exercise totals for the week and I attribute this to having a buddy.

2) Food Challenge – I’m finding ways to eat more food that is nutrient dense (not calorie dense.) Luckily, I’m in the early stages of a weekly vegetable challenges. Maybe you are too? If not, it’s not to late to join in the fun! The Becoming Elli community veggie challenge is to find one new vegetable a week — or at least prepare a vegetable in a new way — and it challenges me to look more closely at the produce. I had several eggplants in my hands this past week, but didn’t buy one. Here is my “new” way of cooking cabbage with turmeric and thyme.

Turmeric, Thyme, Salt and Pepper. Cabbage cut into slices. Underneath: Mushrooms slices. baby Carrots, coarse chopped Celery, sliced Green Peppers. Cup of water. Pork roast – outside seared before going into the crockpot.

I forgot to take a photo of the final product. Basically it was a mushy stew kind of meal and not especially photogenic, if you know what I mean.

3) Helping others – My personality type is more motivated to help someone else, than to help myself by exercising. I don’t know why. Getting involved in the MS bike ride each summer has really helped to get and keep me in shape. Now I have found another way to contribute called “Charity Miles” which is an app you can download. It tracks your mileage for walking, running or biking (you need your phone with you when you do the activity.) Various corporate donors have pledged to contribute money to the charity of my choice (in this case the MS Society) based on the number of miles I complete. charity miles helps me get motivation in winterI’m not exactly sure how much they donate for each mile because Charity Miles divides the money between all the charities at the end of every term. I think the corporations are counting on people sharing the images via social media. But my motivation is to help others and I find that doing this helps me to do more miles than I would have otherwise. So its a win/win/win.

How do you motivate yourself? Do you have ways that you struggle with winter workouts? What tricks to you use when you don’t feel like eating right?

Keeping Momentum During Difficult Times

I don’t know about you, but I find it hard to maintain motivation, especially keeping momentum during difficult times.

Maybe it’s dealing with an immediate situation when a family member needs help. Or when a car decides to act up. Maybe it’s a work-related “crisis” of one kind or another. Or it could be an internal problem – the flu, a cold, a sore muscle or a sleepless night.

It doesn’t really matter the cause. There are roadblocks to keeping momentum of healthy eating, working out regularly and making consistently good choices, right? In my heart, I know keeping momentum is the key to me being strong and fit.

Here are six ways of keeping the momentum during difficult times:

  1. Gratitude List – What am I grateful for? Who am I grateful for? What simple pleasure or beauty am I ignoring because I’m in a difficult time? I like to go though and make a mental list – or actually write down – all the reasons I have for being grateful. Some people call it counting their blessings.
  2. Maintaining Accountability – I like to write down what I accomplished and make note of what I missed. That way, it is pretty clear how things stack up for the week. I look at my Fitbit numbers, report into my coach/trainer and post in my accountability Facebook Group. (Jill and I will be writing more on Becoming Elli’s Closed Facebook Group Community — coming soon!!) Having a community to check in with and get support is a major motivator for me. Some people call it their tribe.
  3. Staying in the Now – Mindfulness is a big buzz word these days. For me, mindfulness means not worrying about tomorrow or next week and not rehashing my mistakes of the past week. It is remembering to stay present and stop worrying. Worry doesn’t change anything, does it? It just subtracts momentum.
  4. That One Little Thing – I try to find that one little thing to increase my motion and activity for the day. It could be taking the stairs. Parking farther away from the building in a parking lot. Doing a little jog into the building. Wearing my running shoes whenever I can so I’m “always ready.” Sometimes it might be as simple as just going downstairs to the laundry room and running a load of wash thru the cycle before getting ready for bed.
  5. Meditation – When I am overly stressed, I try to close my mouth. Bite my tongue, if needed. (Not too hard!) While I try to avoid making those regrettable snap replies, I am not always successful. I need to remind myself to take a deep breath through my nose and out my nose. Close my eyes. Count a few seconds and do it again. Then say something nice – not mean.
  6. Song – When I know it’s going to be a tough day, I’ll pick a theme song for the day. I repeat it in my head over and over during the day. During some difficult days, I can’t even be bothered thinking of a song. “Don’t Stop Believing” by Journey is my fallback. It’s one from my playlist. (This past week Jill wrote about her running playlist. I bet she has some good motivational songs on it that I need to add to my theme song list!)

How about you?

What are your strategies for keeping momentum during difficult times? I’d love to add a few more tools in my bag of tricks!! Please leave a message with your comments and suggestions below or send an email to Chris@BecomingElli.com.

Wishing you the best of luck to you in keeping your motivation – no matter what life throws at you!

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