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It’s Never Too Late to Get Strong: Strength Training for Women Over 50

I’ll be honest with you – when I first walked into a gym at 52, I felt completely out of place. All those young people lifting heavy weights, grunting and sweating, while I could barely figure out how to adjust the seat on the leg press machine. But here’s what I wish someone had told me back then: strength training for women over 50 isn’t just possible, it’s one of the best gifts you can give yourself.

Why Your Body is Actually Ready for This

Let’s talk real talk for a minute. After 50, our bodies start losing muscle mass faster than we’d like to admit. It’s called sarcopenia, and it’s not just about looking good in clothes (though that’s a nice bonus). We’re talking about maintaining the strength to carry groceries, play with grandkids, and feel confident in our own skin. According to the National Institute on Aging, strength training literally helps us stay independent longer and can even help prevent falls.

I remember the first time I deadlifted my own body weight. I was 54, and I cried happy tears right there in the gym. Not because it was easy – it wasn’t – but because I finally felt powerful again.

Starting Smart, Not Hard

Here’s the thing about beginning strength training later in life: you don’t need to bench press your weight or do anything Instagram-worthy. Many women over 50 find success starting with bodyweight exercises like squats, wall push-ups, and modified planks. Your couch can become your gym – seriously. Use it for incline push-ups, step-ups, and tricep dips.

When you’re ready for weights, resistance bands are your best friend. They’re gentle on joints, affordable, and you can use them anywhere. I keep a set in my car because you never know when you’ll have ten minutes to squeeze in some bicep curls. For a complete beginner’s routine, check out my essential strength training moves for women over 50.

Listen to Your Body (It’s Smarter Than You Think)

Recovery becomes more important as we age, and that’s okay. While twenty-somethings might train six days a week, three solid strength sessions weekly can work wonders for us. I learned this the hard way after overdoing it early on and spending a week hobbling around like I’d been hit by a truck.

The Best Part? It Gets Easier

What started as intimidating became my favorite part of the week. I sleep better, my back doesn’t ache after gardening, and I feel genuinely proud of what my body can do. Plus, there’s something incredibly empowering about being the strong woman who doesn’t need help opening jars anymore.

Trust me, your future self will thank you for starting today.

Ways to Get Started with Strength Training

One thing I’ve noticed in the Becoming Elli community is that many of us are looking for ways to get started with strength training. Many women who have joined the Becoming Elli Facebook group (it’s a private group and if you haven’t joined, please do so!) want to get started with strength training.

Most of us know how to do cardio exercises. We use the treadmill or the elliptical or we bicycle indoors and out.

If you listen to the Fit Strong Women over 50 Podcast, you know that we talk a lot about the importance of strength training for women as we age.

Why Strength Train?

We lose muscle more quickly than men and that loss begins earlier than we’d like to think about. Losing muscle makes it harder to keep our metabolism going at a good pace. It makes it harder to move. There are lots of reasons why we should be strength training, also called resistance training. We can go into those reasons in a different post.

There are lots of ways to do strength training, whether you belong to the gym or workout at home but we can all use some help in getting started. You can use weights such as dumb bells, kettle bells, and resistance bands. You can also use your own body weight doing things like squats, push ups, and lunges. Knowing what you can do is, of course, not the same as actually doing it.

Ways to Get Started with Strength Training

I’ve come up with a few ways to help get started with strength training.

Set Goals

Set goals with a timeline related to strength training. While long term goals are great, be sure to include some shorter term goals as well.

Perhaps your long term goal is to be able to do ten regular pushups. That’s a great goal but it may take you a while to get there so make some goals to hit on the way. Perhaps it’s to be able to do ten modified pushups. Then you can make a goal of being able to do one regular pushup. Finally, you hit that long term goal of ten regular pushups.

Invest in Yourself

I find spending money on something is a big motivator. If I pay for a training class, I’m much more likely to go. Perhaps you buy some new weight equipment to include in your home gym. Buying a kettlebell is sure a major investment. Or perhaps you pay to access a strength training app. Or you pay for personal training. Whatever it is, I think most of us do more when we’ve made a financial commitment to something.

Sure, people buy treadmills and gym memberships that they don’t use but I think if you combine the desire to get started with strength training with the financial commitment, you’re more likely to work at it.

Tell people what you’re doing

Tell friends and family member. Confide in your co-workers. If you’re open about wanting to get stronger, you’re more likely to get some support. It helps to tell people who also strength train or workout in some way. I remember telling my mother what I was doing and she really only walked. She told me I didn’t need to be doing this, that walking was enough. So telling your friend at your yoga class might be better.

Find support

Do you have friends who are also interested in strength training? If so, try to work out together. If that’s not possible, maybe try comparing workouts and giving each other ideas of things to try. Online communities, such as the private Facebook group for Becoming Elli, can be helpful. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, discussing with like-minded people can help.

If you’ve joined a gym, talk to the staff. There are people there who can show you how to do different exercises or how to use a piece of equipment. Take advantage of that resource.

Try to Improve

Look for ways to improve. I guess this might be related to goals but what I mean is, just be aware of your body and what you’re capable of doing. If last week, you could only carry two plastic bags of groceries, see if you can increase to three this week. If you can do biceps curls with 8 pound dumbbells, see if you can bump it up to 10 pounds.

Give It a Chance

Stay out of your head. Some of us start strength training say we don’t like it. The problem with that is we usually don’t want to do things that we dislike. If you work on having an open mind, you may realize after awhile that you’re actually enjoying yourself. Give it a fair trial. I really work on no longer saying, “I hate this” when doing squats.

Suggestions?

We know that strength training is important for us as we age so it’s important to figure out ways to get going with it.

What suggestions do you have? I would love to hear other ideas. Comment below if you have something to share.

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