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Commitment and Focus

The purpose of today’s post is to recommit my focus to staying fit and strong.  Recently my sleep and stamina have been in short supply, so I’m starting again. 

Getting comfortable with starting again (and again and again) is probably the most important thing I’ve learned in the nearly 18 years I’ve been focusing on getting and staying fit.

I’m sharing this in case someone else is also at the stage of starting again. Today I needed a bit of help from AI in figuring this out and I asked about getting stronger. These steps will help, but only if I actually do them. So this is what I’m thinking about for restarting my commitment and focus on strength building:

Building strength requires both physical and mental commitment. Finding and maintaining focus can be tough, but here are some strategies to help you stay on track:

1. Set Clear Goals

  • Specific: Instead of just saying “I want to get stronger,” break it down to specific lifts (e.g., bench press, squat, deadlift) and set targets for each.
  • Measurable: Track progress, such as adding 5 pounds to a lift every month.
  • Time-bound: Set a time frame, like six months to achieve a particular goal.

2. Create a Routine

  • Consistency is key. Schedule your workouts like appointments, making them non-negotiable.
  • Have a structured workout plan (like a split routine) that includes progressive overload (gradually increasing weights or reps).

3. Track Your Progress

  • Keep a log of your lifts. This not only shows how far you’ve come, but it also holds you accountable.
  • Seeing improvement, even if it’s small, can provide huge motivation.

4. Break it Down into Small Wins

  • Sometimes, long-term goals can feel overwhelming. Break them into smaller, manageable milestones (e.g., improving your squat form or adding 10 lbs to your deadlift in the next month).
  • Celebrate each milestone as it helps build momentum.

5. Visualize Your Success

  • Visualization can be a powerful tool. Spend time visualizing how you’ll look and feel after reaching your strength goals.
  • It helps solidify the connection between effort and outcome.

6. Find Motivation in the Process

  • Strength-building isn’t just about the end result; the journey is rewarding. Focus on enjoying the process itself, whether it’s improving technique, feeling more powerful, or enjoying the physical and mental benefits of lifting.

7. Surround Yourself with Support

  • Having a training partner or joining a gym community can help keep you accountable and motivated. They can push you, cheer for you, and share tips.
  • Alternatively, follow social media accounts or YouTube channels that share tips, progress stories, and advice.

8. Take Care of Your Recovery

  • Building strength requires rest. If you’re not recovering properly, you may lose motivation due to fatigue or injury. Prioritize sleep, nutrition, and mobility work. (funny how sleep shows up as a priority for improving strength!)

9. Keep a Positive Mindset

  • Building strength takes time, and setbacks are normal. Focus on staying patient and persistent. Learn from mistakes and keep a positive attitude toward progress.

10. Mix it Up Occasionally

  • Avoid getting bored by changing up your routine every few weeks. Incorporating new exercises or techniques keeps things fresh and exciting, maintaining your focus.

11. Push Through Mental Barriers

  • Strength training is as much mental as it is physical. If you’re struggling with focus, push yourself to do just one more rep or set. Often, once you start, the mental block lifts.
  • Learn how to embrace discomfort—strength training is all about pushing past your limits, but safely.

By combining these elements, you can foster commitment and focus over time. It’s about creating a sustainable, enjoyable process that makes you excited to keep improving!

 

Taking Responsibility for Your Life with Renée Suzanne

Episode 111 Taking Responsibility for Your Life with Renée Suzanne

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In episode 111, Jill and Chris talk with Renée Suzanne, who is a special kind of coach. She helps women with self awareness and self confidence, persistence, positive mental attitude, self love and acceptance.

Renée Suzanne helps women over 40 start dating better men immediately so they can meet and marry the man of their dreams. She is the creator of the COURTED method, a process that helps women date in order to create the lasting connection they really want.

Renée is the author of “Beloved: How to go from relationship-challenged to relationship-ready” and “Ten things you can do to upgrade your love life”. When she’s not helping women find true love, she is out ballroom dancing with her husband or walking her dog on the trails near her home in Chicagoland.

Her coaching principles for improved dating reach into many areas of reaching goals.

Ways you can begin taking responsibility for your life:

  • Identify what you want
  • Articulate your desired goal – it’s a big step to admit you want something
  • Own it and commit to yourself
  • Do it – Take action
  • The more you get into it, the more you can stretch what is possible
  • Things become possible that you never would have considered.
  • The power of progression
  • Really love yourself and have your own back

Links:

Website Renée Suzanne Coaching
Kindle book on Amazon Beloved: How to go from relationship-challenged to relationship-ready
Kindle book on Amazon Ten things you can do to upgrade your love life

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